I know it sounds hard, but I promise it will be worth it.
You don’t have time for people who are not ready to love you. You don’t have the energy to wait for their texts, calls, or their short notice.
They can’t love you doesn’t mean you are not lovable; it simply means that they aren’t capable of loving you the way you deserve. Despite your efforts to earn their affection, they may not be the right fit for you.
And don’t listen to what they say, pay attention to what they do because actions always speak louder than words. When someone shows you who they are, you need to believe them. Ignoring the signs will only lead to your own suffering in the end.
Please noticed that you can’t not change someone by simply loving them and hoping they’ll change. You have to accept them for who they are, both their strengths and weaknesses.
I know those kids who were raised without love will spend their whole lives searching for it. But you cannot search for love elsewhere, because it’s within you.
I know you feel lonely in this strange world, to be accepted and to stand out. To meet all the milestones you should have reached.
But I have to tell you this:
Forget what other people think. You don’t have to do this.
Forget everyone who makes you feel like you are not good enough.
Because you are enough, and your presence is the best present that you can give to the world.
You don’t have to change yourself for someone else; You just need to be the better version of you every day and that is enough.
Letting go of someone can be the best act of self-love you can ever give yourself.
And setting them free is the purest form of love you can ever offer for them
